
One popularly transgressed law but is not wittingly considered as so is the express admonition to honor ones father and mother. Many people sin either my omitting to honor or in most cases committing dishonor to ones parents. Human frailty is a common excuse for those who unwittingly disregard respecting their parents. In the course of daily interaction, people tend to forget, albeit unintentionally, according respect to their parents.
While we keep in our consciousness our obligation to honor our parents, we tend at times to follow our own will and volition and without ill intent, fall prey transgressing the divine admonition. While there are no direct imposable sanctions for violating God’s commandment, such sin breaks our connection with God and unknowingly we fall out of His grace.
Many disputes in the family are rooted in the utter failure to observe the fourth commandment. Children asserting their freedom and independence to set the course of their lives often fall into despising the admonitions of their parents or at times choosing to go on a head-on collision course. Options for harmonizing relations and accepting compromises for common positions and directions are often abhorred.
The tendency is shut doors for alternative solutions that would eventually eliminate strains in existing close relationships among members of the family. The strains does not only occur between parents and children but among siblings as well, both being cases transgression to the same commandment. It is so because even if the rift is among siblings, it still is so in contempt of parental love and authority that ought to be honored and respected.
On a different plain, we sometimes see transgressions as motivated by ill will owing to the way parents treated their children. We have witnessed a lot of stories where children purposely fail to give honor and respect primarily because of their parents’ doing or undoing. There is that well accepted adage that requires people to give respect in order to be respected. Reciprocity is the rule the adage posits for people to be guided and to follow. It demands the giving of respect as a precondition to receiving the same respect in return.
This is why many children who feel hurt and live with ill-will, rancor and misgivings from their parents thinks not obliged to give respect and honor. But the premise is clearly misplaced because the commandment is unconditional and is expressly demanding without reciprocation. It may perhaps be unfair but we still ought to follow God’s will and trust in His infinite divine wisdom.
The commandment is boundless that in a sense it extends even when the one to be accorded the honor and respect may have joined our Maker in the great beyond. We still keep intact the respect and honor due our fathers and mothers no matter what. Such is in obedience to the commandment that demands honor for parents not because of who or what they are but simply because of their being parents. We set aside everything we think or feel wrong and allow love, honor and respect to prevail according to God’s will.
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The contrast of the two sons
ASSOCIATE PROFESSOR III
The Private Jets, the flock of Caucasian women singers and the begging pastorals, plus the most expensive lawyers money can buy, could not stop nor delay the downfall of the man. It may never put Humpty Dumpty together again.
Jesus’ teachings are timeless and profound. His lessons are still transforming and inspiring lives. Let us examine a few of His impactful sayings:
“I am the life, the truth, and the path. “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16) Our actions should reflect God’s love.
“Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33) Jesus emphasizes that He is the path to God and eternal life.
In the other hand , here is a short dossier of the man who claims that he is God’s own appointed son .
Here is what the web has to say about Pastor Apollo Carreon Quiboloy:
1. Sex Trafficking Allegations:
o FBI Investigation: In 2015, the FBI began investigating Quiboloy for human trafficking in Hawaii. The agency eventually indicted him in November 2021 for “conspiracy to engage in sex trafficking by force, fraud, and coercion, and sex trafficking of children.”
o Accusations: Quiboloy allegedly exploited women and minors within his organization, the Kingdom of Jesus Christ (KOJC). These individuals were manipulated into believing that salvation was tied to their dedication to him, including sexual acts.
o Indictment Details: The indictment alleges that Quiboloy trafficked “pastorals” (privileged women who served as his personal assistants) and forced them into sexual encounters with him. Some of these women had traveled with him to the U.S.
o U.S. Treasury Sanctions: In December 2022, the U.S. Treasury Department imposed sanctions on Quiboloy, freezing his U.S. assets. These sanctions are a precursor to potential legal proceedings.
2. Previous Investigations:
o Gun Parts and Cash: In 2018, authorities detained Quiboloy in Hawaii after discovering undeclared cash and gun parts inside his private jet. This incident prompted the FBI to intensify its investigation into human trafficking allegations against him.
o Dismissed Cases: In 2020, Davao prosecutors dismissed rape and human trafficking cases against Quiboloy.
3. Defiance and Denial:
o Quiboloy has consistently denied the accusations, dismissing them as politically motivated and bogus.
o His legal counsel claims that the accusations are meant to discredit him and his church.
4. Ongoing Legal Situation:
o Despite being on the FBI’s most-wanted list for sex trafficking, Quiboloy has not faced trial yet. His influence as a media and religious figure in the Philippines may delay any legal proceedings.
o The allegations against him continue to raise serious concerns about human rights abuses and exploitation within his organization.
Yesterday, the Philippine Senate was able to issue an arrest order for the continued defiance of Pastor Apollo Carreon Quiboloy in not attending the Senate Hearing as led by the Senate Committee on Children and Women as Chaired by Senator Risa Hontiveros. Despite the days of the prayer rallies in support of the beleaguered persona in Quiboloy, still the tides had been steadily rising against him.
The “Appointed Son of God “ is perhaps thinking he may not be any more protected by his politician friends nor the angels of the real God.
In all, he is cut to size, looming a little bit smaller than he was, even in the most rabid supporters in his kingdom and in the halls of the Senate. Indeed, this narrative contrast the self-sacrifice of our Lord Jesus Christ and the self-serving appointed son of God is clear. The Private Jets, flock of Caucasian women singers and the begging pastorals, plus the most expensive lawyers money can buy, could not stop nor delay the downfall of the man. It will never put Humpty Dumpty together again.
Let us reflect on the hubris of Quiboloy and the humility of our Lord Jesus Christ as a study of contrast. Lent allows us the solitude and the chance. Lent tells us that death is sweeter than the sweet life. That power and material possessions can never give nor would it result to salvation.